Dealing With Sin
“If I ignore it, maybe it will go away.” Too often we think that way about something unpleasant, or even about something sinful. Sin breaks our relationship with God and others. The way to deal with sin is to acknowledge it, ask God for fogginess, and turn away from the sinful act or thought.
There can be no greater joy than to know God has forgiven our sins because of Jesus’ death on the cross. And as forgiven people, we need to also be great forgivers.
Holding grudges is in opposition to forgiveness. We must forgive others just as God has forgiven us.
When Someone Sins…
If your brother or sister in God’s family does something wrong, go and tell them what they did wrong. Do this when you are alone with them. If they listen to you, then you have helped them to be your brother or sister again. But if they refuse to listen, go to them again and take one or two people with you. Then there will be two or three people who will be able to tell all that happened. If they refuse to listen to them, tell the church. And if they refuse to listen to the church, treat them as you would treat someone who does not know God or who is a tax collector.
Allowing and Not Allowing…
I can assure you that when you speak judgment here on earth, it will be God’s judgment. And when you promise forgiveness here on earth, it will be God’s forgiveness.
To say it another way, if two of you on earth agree on anything you pray for, my Father in heaven will do what you ask. Yes, if two or three people together believe in me, I am there with them.
An Official Who Refused To Forgive…
Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, Lord, when someone won’t stop doing wrong to me, how many times must I forgive them? Seven times?
Jesus answered, I tell you, you must forgive them more than seven times. You must continue to forgive them even if they do wrong to you seventy-seven times.
So God’s kingdom is like a king who decided to collect the money his servants owed him. The king began to collect his money. One servant owed him several thousand pounds of silver. He was not able to pay the money to his master, the king. So the master ordered that he and everything he owned be sold, even his wife and children. The money would be used to pay the king what the servant owed. But the servant fell on his knees and begged, be patient with me. I will pay you everything I owe.
The master felt sorry for him. So he told the servant he did not have to pay. He let him go free.
Later, that same servant found another servant who owed him a hundred silver coins. He grabbed him around the neck and said, pay me the money you owe me! The other servant fell on his knees and begged him, be patient with me. I will pay you everything I owe. But the first servant refused to be patient. He told the judge that the other servant owed him money, and that servant was put in jail until he could pay everything he owed.
All the other servants saw what happened. They felt very sorry for the man. So they went and told their master everything that happened.
Then the master called his servant in and said, you evil servant. You begged me to forgive your debt, and I said you did not have to pay anything! So you should have given that other man who serves with you the same mercy I gave you. The master was very angry, so he put the servant in jail to be punished. And he had to stay in jail until he could pay everything he owed.
This king did the same as my heavenly Father will do to you. You must forgive your brother or sister with all your heart or my heavenly Father will not forgive you.
